Choice of legal wording for marriage

Coronavirus: Important information

Notice of marriage and civil partnership will continue to be carried out by face-to-face appointments at Guildford, Leatherhead and Weybridge Register Offices for couples that have a ceremony booked before 30 June 2021.

Further to the Prime Minister's announcement of 22 February 2021, marriage and civil partnership ceremonies cannot take place before 29 March 2021, except in exceptional circumstances. Restrictions on marriages and civil partnerships will start to be eased from 29 March 2021.

For more detailed information please visit marriage and civil partnership ceremonies during the coronavirus outbreak.

Our registrar will deliver the ceremony you have chosen.

During the ceremony you will each be asked, in turn, to repeat the declaratory and contracting words. Additional vows and/or promises may be used, but these cannot have any religious connotations and need to be approved, at least three weeks prior to the ceremony, by the registrar. You may wish to print them out to read to each other at the ceremony.

After you have been declared legally married, the formal checking and signing of the register will take place.

Declaratory words

(a) " I do solemnly declare that I know not of any lawful impediment why I ..., may not be joined in matrimony to ..." (Traditional since 1837)


(b) " I declare that I know of no legal reason why I ... may not be joined in marriage to ..."


(c) by replying "I am" to the question "Are you ..., free lawfully to marry...?"

Contracting words

(a) "I call upon these persons here present to witness that I..., do take thee..., to be my lawful wedded wife (or husband)." (Traditional since 1837)


(b) "I..., take you..., to be my wedded wife (or husband)"


(c) "I..., take thee... to be my wedded wife (or husband)"

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