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Choice of legal wording for marriage

The superintendent registrar will deliver the Surrey ceremony you have chosen. During the ceremony you will each be asked, in turn, to repeat the declaratory and contracting words. Additional vows and/or promises may be used, but these cannot have any religious connotations and need to be approved, at least three weeks prior to the ceremony, by the superintendent registrar. You may wish to print them out to read to each other at the ceremony.

Prior to your ceremony, we will be happy to discuss with you the addition of suitable vows and/or promises.

After you have been declared legally married, the formal signing of the register will take place.

Following this, the registrar will be pleased to assist in arranging photographs.

Declaratory words

(a) " I do solemnly declare that I know not of any lawful impediment why I ..., may not be joined in matrimony to ..." (Traditional since 1837)


(b) " I declare that I know of no legal reason why I ... may not be joined in marriage to ..."


(c) by replying "I am" to the question "Are you ..., free lawfully to marry...?"

Contracting words

(a) "I call upon these persons here present to witness that I..., do take thee..., to be my lawful wedded wife (or husband)." (Traditional since 1837)


(b) "I..., take you..., to be my wedded wife (or husband)"


(c) "I..., take thee... to be my wedded wife (or husband)"

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